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But all of that is my own journey, my own ethos, the place I've arrived at through my own life and unique life history: For instance, when activities are not negotiated or negotiations and communication are ignored or dismissed, where domination is not about play, but the belief that a given partner is, in essence, a subordinate or slave, where basic safety practices are ignored or where one partner really doesn't like that kind of play, but feels they have to to please a partner who does. It might seem odd, but bear in mind that our socio-sexual conditioning is powerful stuff, and sometimes people like things sexually which, in other contexts, they abhor or don't find feel good. From why men love boobs to why both partners start wanting to scratch other sexual itches after seven years, a plausible-sounding biological explanation for our sexual predilections is always welcomed — apart from, of course, when it comes to BDSM. What turns us on or doesn't just isn't something we can control, so in my book, it doesn't make a lot of sense to invest a lot of concern in what excites us. I think we do have to take the "by men" out of the equation here, because I don't think it's relevant.
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Is something wrong with me because I like BDSM? Can I like it and still be a feminist?

I enjoyed myself at the time, just like I enjoyed myself at the time when I dropped LSD in high school. Some people just want more pleasure. I don't know but it occurs to me that maybe it has nothing to do with love. Thus, the social restraints are removed: Don't overdo it though.
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People wanting to play with a totally pervasive power structure is hardly surprising, just like people wanting to play with gender binaries isn't a shocker. If after reading this article, you are inspired to learn, take a look at our tutorials on ShibariClasses. Thus, the social restraints are removed: I was looking to be triggered or to trigger others at the time. I have friends who are into this type of fantasy world and others who find it not for them.
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And for me, who does have a history with some serious abuses in it, it is triggering , which I think is some of why I -- again, talking about me here, not you or anyone else -- enjoyed it: Maybe you don't always call men or other women out when they're making jokes about rape or intimate partner violence or slagging on a woman for her shape or size. You or your boyfriend are not likely to take away our right to vote or keep all women from full equality with a love-bite or a spanking. I felt one way about it ten years ago, a different way about it now, and may very well have an entirely different opinion in another ten years. For instance, a lot of women who identify as feminists aren't vegan, and support of factory-farming and the politics of meat-eating are sometimes considered a feminist issue because the subordination of animals is often linked to the subordination of women. Just like with any other kinds of sex, so long as it is something you mutually want to be doing, something you both communicate clearly about and negotiate well, something neither of you are doing out of obligation or feel you can't say no to, something you're doing with care for physical and emotional safety, and so long as you both feel good about it, I don't see a reason for you to worry about this.
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